Financial guru and author Andrew Tobias finds it just
as crucial to discuss human rights, social responsibility
and AIDS, as he does healthy finances and political participation.
The prolific writer and pundit tells A&U?s
B. Andrew Plant what we can all do to try to put an end
to the AIDS pandemic.
In 1973, when Andrew Tobias published (under the pseudonym
John Reid) the acclaimed book, The Best Little Boy
in The World?a wonderful chronicle about coming to
terms with his sexuality?our world did not include AIDS.
At least, so far as we know. But when Tobias published The
Best Little Boy in The World Grows Up twenty-five
years later, in 1998, and this time under his by-then-famous
real name, we were nearly twenty years into the worst
pandemic of all time.
There is an interesting irony and unfortunate parallel
between the first, relatively innocent tome and the second
book, which came after we had all, devastatingly, been
robbed of the innocence of a pre-AIDS world. Such monumental
change is not lost on Tobias, who has been both successful
and socially responsible, across the vastly changing
decades.
He was a wunderkind at Harvard, earning two degrees
there, turned out several books just as his career was
getting started, wrote for New York magazine and Esquire,
and graduated to a column in Time. He has authored financial
software, many books, and shares his financial wisdom
everywhere from public broadcasting to the Internet.
As if that?s not enough, Tobias also serves as treasurer
of the Democratic National Committee.
I reflected on these accomplishments as I talked with
Tobias in his pied-?-terre, high above Miami?s South
Beach. Here sits a handsome, witty, smart-as-a-whip successful
author and entrepreneur who was born into a prosperous
family and has made the most of his blessings?and he
is more than willing to plop down on the couch, barefoot
and in shorts, and talk to a writer about The Modern
Plague.
?I remember when I first heard about it,? Tobias says. ?I
was sitting at a table of a house we called Valmare,
a rental house on Fire Island. Just sitting with three
or four of my housemates talking?.It was June or July
of 1981. They started talking about that first article
in The New York Times?you know the one?.Four of
the eight are gone?.
?Most of this seems like ancient history,? he says. ?The
good news is that it has been a long time since I have
been at the funeral of someone who died of AIDS. Even
so, the problem, as we know, has not gone away. These
new infections shouldn?t be happening, but they are and
we can?t ignore them.?
He has been touched, like so many others, through the
loss of friends. ?We used to have 120 people for [periodic]
brunches; about half of them are dead,? he says. ?The
other half, thankfully, are not positive or are positive
and healthy.?
Two or three chapters of The Best Little Boy in The
World Grows Up really touch on AIDS. But the BLBITW
(Best Little Boy in The World), as Tobias refers to
himself in the book, wasn?t supposed to have to deal
with the reality of a world with AIDS. But he does?by
donating the monetary proceeds of his successes and
by following his own financial advice, investing in
endeavors that may some day vastly change the world
of AIDS.
?One thing I have done is to be politically active,? Tobias
says. When I ask this political veteran what he thinks
people can do to affect change in terms of AIDS policy
prior to the next [Presidential] election, his answer
is quick and adamant. ?The next election is not that
far off,? he says. ?It may seem that way, but it?s just
not.?
He says the things you might expect, like that he hopes
everyone is a registered voter, and that he wants them
to visit www.democrats.org. ?Even your Republican readers?and
you are likely to have some,? he quips, ?should take
a survey on that site, give the Democrats a chance to
make their case.?
Like the self-described ?knee-jerk liberal? he is, Tobias
goes on to cite Human Rights Campaign statistics regarding
Congressional surveys from 1994 and 2002. ?The difference
is clear. It?s right there,? he says. ?There are a few
Republicans who are with us on this, but the Democrats
have an indisputably better record.
?If you ask the executive directors of [major AIDS service
organizations], I doubt they will say, ?We gotta get
rid of those Democrats because the Republicans really
get what the important issues are on AIDS.??
The ever-polite BLBITW wonders what else I need to know.
I remind him that we need to cover hands-on HIV-related
topics.
?Charles [his partner] and I have been privileged to
support GMHC [Gay Men?s Health Crisis], the AIDS Walk
every June [New York?s walk], APLA [AIDS Project Los
Angeles], AIDS Action Council in Washington?,? he says. ?We?re
reasonably good citizens in terms of donations, and it?s
easy to do and can be important.?
In fact, the photos that accompany this interview are
a result of Tobias?s winning bid in a silent auction
that was part of a fundraiser for an AIDS organization.
He goes on to show me that a piece of artwork on the
wall behind us is another AIDS fundraising purchase.
Then we steer back to the particulars of his involvement
in all-things-AIDS. This time we cover investing (naturally,
since he is a financial guru). ?I have invested in a
couple of these private hopeful miracles,? Tobias says,
explaining that one such investment is in the development
of a new HIV drug and another is in GenPhar, which he
says, ?[is] not just a vaccine, but a therapeutic vaccine?.?
He also contributes to and has helped host a fundraiser
for Medical Education for South African Blacks (MESAB),
which literally trains healthcare professionals so they
can help tackle AIDS and other health crises.
As our interview winds down, Tobias pauses to flip on
lights around the condo, and suggests I change seats
so I can both talk to him and see the sun start to set
across the waters off South Beach. He is gracious in
that easy way we would all like to emulate.
That makes it easier for me to ask him to autograph
a book. Tobias scurries around the apartment, opening
a closet and then the door beneath an end table. He produces
three more books to join the one I brought, and begins
flipping them open, writing away and telling me a little
about each one. As he prepares to scribble in Book Number
Three, there is a confused pause and he begins laughing
delightedly.
?This one is already signed,? he shares, ?for Jerry
Seinfeld! Now, I wonder what I gave him!?
We wind things up leisurely and ?Andy? sees me out the
door, making suggestions of what I might want to see
and where I might want to eat on this darkening South
Beach evening. I?m thinking about such things too, but
also about the good fortune (pun intended) of having
such a neat guy fully engaged in and passionate about
beating AIDS.
You can?t do better than having The Best Little Boy
on your team.
B. Andrew Plant is an Atlanta-based freelance writer
and is Editor at Large of A&U. He interviewed
Dolly Parton for the July issue.
November 2003